"As a woman I also get a lot of romantic approaches from male strangers.
However, those I just delete, then block the sender, so it's not a problem.
Our club has become a real community where we have regulars who come along just because they love a good dance within their age range.
Obviously the earlier part of the evening with introductions at the bar or the Socialising Circle are great ice-breakers and the best way to come before the DJ kicks off the party.
We have 15 mini chats and then the DJ kicks off the party from 8.30pm until 12.30am.
You can even carry on chatting in the main bar of the hotel when the event finishes.
A lot of us don't know each other but we have a common interest that enables us to have discussions on many topics." Author Kate Long is a fan of Facebook too.