However, women are notorious for believing lies that married men tell them.
He would return with flowers, expensive gifts, money and powerful love-making sessions. How in the world am I supposed to move on after this?
He would wine and dine me and make me forget about any questions I had about our relationship. I wanted to get married but he kept stalling and would make up some excuse and give some reason why he couldn't marry me yet. He said he was in the process of a divorce and he wanted me to wait for him. Then one day I received a knock at my door and it was "HER", his "WIFE"…staring me in my face. Sincerely, Hurt By My Married Lover Dear Hurt, If I had a dollar for every letter I received like this one, I'd be financially independent.
Vicki, I've been in a relationship with a married man for five years.
I can't believe I've accepted this for so long, but I'm confused and I don't know what to believe. Sometimes he could be so attentive, but other times he was unavailable for days or weeks. Vicki, I feel like I want to get even with him because I'm so hurt.
He may try to downplay his sexual relationship with the wife to you, but in the end, he goes home to her, sleeps with her and plays husband-and-wife with her, and "sadly" not with you. You waste precious time Youre not getting younger while youre having a relationship with a married man.