You must use this time to build your stats and grow your relationship with the guys and girls in the city.
To build your relationship you must talk to potential dates, ask them questions (and remember their answers) and give them gifts.
Sometimes I forget what they're saying so I was unable to gain that person's trust.
This is a good step in the right direction if gay people are to be accepted in normal society.
It will usually take multiple successful dates to complete the seduction.